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Dads - Finding The Comfort in Discomfort
Reframing it this way gives you a rationale and fuel for the struggle as it is an investment into your bond, why would you not want that.
And it will get better, the feeding, the sleeping, the cleaning, being together. You will get better and the baby will get better, you are learning and developing new skills together, 10,000 hours so the books tell me.